Three Essential Questions for Every Christian

Let’s begin with a high-level, big-picture view of our three essential questions, like viewing the earth from space. Every model is off, yet this one with three essential questions goes a long way to point to how we can re-calibrate our inner compass.

1. “What is God like?”

He is like no other! God is relational Trinity, Father, Son and Spirit, with belongingness and oneness at His core. Read the creation account in Genesis one. What He created reflects who God is. God is good (expressed every creation day), great (He spoke and it happened), and generous (note the vast variety of His creation).

Reread how this God intimately relates to us in Ephesians 1:3-14. The Father is the Living God, whose good pleasure is to bless and to adopt us blameless in His sight. The Son sacrificed His life to ransom us from the clutches of our enemies. He also chooses to include us with Him in His epic adventure to restore our world to the Father’s heart. The Spirit permanently includes us in Christ as the seal and deposit guaranteeing our unending life and empowers His people in every aspect of our spiritual life.

An accurate grasp of the Bible begins with the relational Trinity and the incarnation of Jesus (both of which fry my mental circuits). Everything flows from this living, personal God. All things work through Him and will ultimately return praise and honor to Him. This world is the theater of God’s splendor, alive with His life and presence.

“In the confession of the Trinity throbs the heart of the Christian religion” (Herman Bavinck).

2. “How does this God see and know me?” 

To see accurately, we must first begin with God’s thoughts so take a glimpse behind the curtain of time. WHY did God create? Not because of any lack. The Father, Son and Spirit were Community before anything else existed. Their unbridled delight and satisfaction with One Another in the outpouring of their mutual co-love and their joy-filled life with each other knew no bounds! Life and love must be multiplied to reach the zenith of its fullness.

The Father so deeply loved His Son that the Team-of-Three decided to “go public” in creation. God designed His image-bearers as much like the relational Trinity as any created being could ever be. This Team determined to populate the world with men and women like Jesus to receive and to pass along His presence to others. Our Family-of-Three now has companions to receive their Divine life, love and light and to display to others our ardent delight in our mutual indwelling. God is “in us” and we are “in God.” We share the same glory and the same love as the Son received from the Father.

This means:

God’s generosity moved His goodness and greatness to create community beings like Himself. He created us in His image, as much like the Uncreated God as a created being could ever be.

I see three clear, primary aspects of God’s design. First, God fashioned us for belonging, to enjoy secure relationships, with God and also with people (our identity). Second, for purpose, to partner together in significant mission, with God and also with others (our authority). Third, for blessing or affirmation, to experience mutual, sincere acceptance, from God and then both toward and from other people (our culture releasing freedom).

Adam and Eve went rogue and failed God’s test in Genesis 3, persuasively demonstrating to us how much we need Him. Jesus has always been God’s Plan-A, “the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world.” He conquered and still conquers. Jesus came both to remove all the damage created by Adam and also to restore and thrust us forward “in Christ” towards God’s eternal-intent of shared life.Our greatest joy and highest good is partnering with Him in our God-Assignments.

“In Christ,”

God unites believers in a new, permanent relationship as fellow members of His spiritual body in union with Christ. “I am in My Father, and you are in me, and I am in you,” John 14:20).

“In Christ,”

the Triune God draws us near to powerfully experience His eternal life, love and light from the inside out. This mutuality of “Christ in us” and “us in Christ” is the revelation of true humanness in the image of God. God conceived this vision and call in eternity past. Through Jesus’ death and resurrection, He embraces those who embrace Him by faith in Christ. He will certainly fulfill His plan in eternity future, even while we presently live in the “already, but not yet” (Revelation 21:1-22:5).

This high view is the only one I know worthy of the extraordinary sacrifice of God Himself dying for me, oh mystery! Our relational God, Father, Son and Spirit, gives us a long, refreshing drink of how much our Family-of-Three passionately delights in us. Begin with His passion for us to see ourselves with the same delight God does.

3. “What are my God-Assignments?”

God celebrates us with indescribable pleasure as His Beloved child, His servant-warrior, and His beautiful Bride. He enjoys partnering with us, both as friends and partners. We delight ourselves in the Lord as His desires become our heart desires. We mature and grow personally to grasp our true identity and authority as we lean into Jesus more profoundly. Even in trials, we grow in maturity and ministry if we lean into our Family-of-Three to fulfill our God-Assignments on His epic adventure to restore His prodigal world to the Father’s heart.


We humans are often so stuck in our poverty-mentality that we are blinded to our abundance in authentic Reality. As a result, most people identify more readily with what’s not working in their life than with what is working. Most people identify more readily with the negative rather than with the positive. And many Christian growth strategies unfortunately begin with this “sin-management” approach.

We must break that slave-mentality!

The best way I have found is to saturate our minds daily with God-Reality, like with these three essential questions (or your version of them). Since God designed as as worshipers, “we become what we behold.” Whatever we focus the attention of our heart on (our thoughts, affections and choices), God designed us to become more like our focus, both positive and negative.

It’s tough to break out of the childish thought-patterns we learned as coping devices in our adolescent years. Too often, we think and respond as if the world centered on us and our pain. Rather than giving in to this programming from our upbringing, I prefer to speak truth into our fractured parts. Learn instead to begin our thinking and doing from all three essential questions to re-calibrate our inner spiritual compass.

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2 thoughts on “Three Essential Questions for Every Christian

  1. Jim,
    Another great post. I just felt compelled to add to the “Why” portion. Yes God created us to be in community and yes God created us that we might enjoy His wonder for eternity and yes created us for a purpose. We see what that purpose is in 1 Corinthians 10:31, Matthew 5:16, Isaiah 43:20–21, Isaiah 48:9–11, and more. We are created, called and redeemed that we can reflect, resound, and reveal God’s glory. Not for any vain reason. Not because God has a huge ego that needs our worship. But simply because He is worthy of our praise. Because in His glory is revealed the perfection of everything that is good and holy and that is the light we should all want to be and become. God gave everything, to show that nothing will stand in the way of His redeeming all things to His glory:
    For I am the LORD your God,
    the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.
    I give Egypt as your ransom,
    Cush and Seba in exchange for you.
    Because you are precious in my eyes,
    and honored, and I love you.

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